Growing up, I can never remember my parents arguing with each other. If they did fight, it was in private. Then, when I was 13, both my parents sat my brothers down and told us that they were getting divorced! My brothers and I were shocked. We just never saw it coming.
My wife and I weren’t afraid to disagree with each other. Most of our arguments were about the kids—we never fought about money. We were raised very differently, and so we had very different ideas about discipline and expectations. I do have to admit that we could get pretty loud—but we always resolved tension before... Read More