I would be very disappointed if my young adult children still had to live with me. It would mean they were not trying very hard. Jobs are no longer that scarce. Kids need to know their first jobs are not going to be their dream jobs but they need to work anyway. In order to move out, they will most likely need to have roommates. They are probably going to be poor for a while just like most of us were. It makes them resourceful. It builds character.
We are very proud of our kids. They have rarely asked us for anything so it is with great pleasure that we are able to be generous with them on birthdays and Christmas. Also, being an empty nester totally rocks!